Problems

"Everyone experiences tough times, it is a measure of your determination and dedication how you deal with them and how you can come through them." --Lakshmi Mittal

I remember my grade school teacher telling us "Only the dead has no problem". Well, in my twenty-two years of existence I can say that she's right. Everyone in the world experience problems. Sometimes, a problem has a very easy solution and sometimes death is the only way, like what happened to Sec. Angelo Reyes. At this point in my life, I can say that my only problem is money. Of course, money is the major problem of everyone. Poor people have problems finding money while rich people have problems in spending them. But money is just an easy problem. If you know how to handle it wisely, it'll grow. A friend told me to save money. Even just a little amount of money  in every month. She is right. Thanks to her.

But what if money is not your major problem? What if its your husband, family, friends, or studies?

Having a problem that you cannot handle can give you a lot of stress. Don't forget, stress can give you heart problems. If you are having problems with your husband, think of what you can do to make him feel loved not to make him feel unloved. People usually gives back what you give them. So, as a wife, you need to learn what are his feelings, needs, and wants. Do you think he's gonna sleep with another woman if you sleep with him.

If you got a problem with your studies (well, i have problems before), you need to ask yourself why are having this kind of problem. Maybe you should learn how to manage your schedule to pass projects on time. Maybe you should get a tutor if you find a certain subject hard. Or maybe you should stop hanging out with your B.I (bad influence) friends.

Every person in the world, even the children, have problems. Problems are there to measure how strong we are. We don't usually think of this but I think we should give thanks for our problems because it makes us stronger than before. Don't ever think that life is unfair. Never blame your unhappy and miserable life to others because you are responsible for everything you do. Instead of blaming it to others or hanging yourself on the ceiling, find a way to ease the pain. Like what I said, every problem has a solution but never choose death as one. Death is a solution to  cowards. Are you a coward? I think not!